Abstract
Introduction
Work–family conflict (WFC) refers to a situation where the demands of work and family domains are “mutually incompatible” (Greenhaus & Beutell, 1985). Recent studies show that WFC has become increasingly prevalent globally, with many workers reporting disruptions in work and private domains (Allen et al., 2020; Ollier-Malaterre & Foucreault, 2017). WFC can have a major impact on employees’ health and well-being (Guo & Wang, 2024). Several studies have documented that WFC harms workers’ mental health (Cooklin, Dinh, et al., 2016; Song et al., 2024), simultaneously lowering work productivity (Goullet et al., 2022), life satisfaction (Qu & Zhao, 2012), and marital satisfaction (Chen & Lim, 2012; Molina, 2021). However, research on the relationship between parental WFC and children’s mental health outcomes is still in its early stages. Evidence suggests that parents’ WFC is negatively associated with children’s overall mental health (Dinh et al., 2017; Leach et al., 2021), elevated emotional problems (Yucel & Latshaw, 2021), and increased behavioral problems (Lim, 2024).
Despite an emerging body of literature on the link between parental WFC and children’s mental health outcomes, such as internalizing behaviors, externalizing behaviors, overall mental health, and problematic internet usage (Bilodeau et al., 2023), important research gaps remain. First, previous studies exploring the pathways linking parental WFC to child mental health problems considered only a single mediator in their analyses or examined various mediators separately (Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2020; Strazdins et al., 2013). However, Von Soest and Hagtvet (2011) argued that, compared with multiple mediation models, single mediation models can lead to inconsistent results, as the former consider the simultaneous interplay of several mediators. Thus, previous studies have provided only limited insight into underlying pathways that interact with one another (for a review, see Bilodeau et al., 2023).
A second research gap is that we know little about whether parental WFC is associated with child-reported parenting behaviors and emotional problems. While earlier studies relied on only parent-reported measures of children’s mental health outcomes and parenting behaviors (e.g., Cooklin et al., 2016; Dinh et al., 2017; Van den Eynde et al., 2020), more recent work suggests discrepancies between parent-reported and child-reported emotional difficulties (Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2024). Studies examining reporter bias in children’s mental health have shown that parents’ mental state may affect their assessment of their children’s emotional and conduct problems (Gartstein et al., 2009; Seiffge-Krenke & Kollmar, 1998). In the context of parents’ WFC, reporter bias may occur when a higher level of WFC leads parents to rate their children’s emotional well-being more negatively.
A final research gap involves differences in children’s responses to mothers’ and fathers’ WFC. With a few exceptions (e.g., Dinh et al., 2017; Van den Eynde et al., 2020; Yucel & Latshaw, 2021), most of our knowledge about the association between parental WFC and children’s emotional and behavioral problems is based on mothers only. As women tend to perform a larger share of childcare (Craig & Mullan, 2011), most studies observe that mothers’ WFC is negatively associated with children’s mental health outcomes (Cooklin et al., 2015; Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2020; Pilarz, 2021). However, the changing role of fatherhood and increased fathers’ time with their children (Hook & Wolfe, 2012), coupled with mothers’ growing labor-market participation, raises new questions about how fathers’ WFC may lead to changes in parenting behaviors, which in turn may influence children’s mental health outcomes.
Building upon and addressing these gaps in current scholarship, our study seeks to provide new insights into the pathways underlying the link between both mothers’ and fathers’ WFC and children’s self-reported emotional well-being. We draw on data from the German Family Panel (pairfam) to examine the association between parental WFC, child-reported parenting behaviors, and child-reported emotional well-being, and the potential mediating roles of child-reported parenting behaviors in this process. Our study extends previous research in three ways.
First, it explores whether parental WFC is linked to children’s emotional problems through multiple pathways and whether certain parenting behaviors are more important than others. By testing positive and negative parenting behaviors as mediators, our analysis shows that mothers’ WFC influences children’s emotional problems by increasing detrimental parenting behaviors (e.g., negative communication and conflict) but not by reducing positive parenting behaviors (e.g., parental warmth). Second, we examine children’s views on their mental well-being and how parents interact with them. Having children’s perspectives on their emotional well-being and parents’ behaviors toward them helps minimize parental reporting bias and endogeneity in the analysis. Finally, we consider parental gender differences in the effects of parental WFC on children’s emotional well-being. Together, our study provides a new assessment of how mothers’ and fathers’ WFC affect the emotional well-being of children and the mediating role of parenting behaviors. Our findings have implications for policy interventions that aim to reduce WFC and support parents experiencing high WFC, ultimately promoting children’s emotional well-being.
Background
Parents’ WFC and Children’s Emotional Well-Being
The key theories for understanding the impact of parental WFC on children’s emotional well-being are crossover theory and family systems theory. Crossover theory explains how positive or negative experiences and emotions can transfer between individuals within the same social environment, particularly in a dyadic relationship (Bakker et al., 2009; Westman, 2001). It focuses on crossover effects between couples, for instance, when WFC influences relationship satisfaction between partners (Bakker et al., 2009; Yang & Dahm, 2021). However, the crossover effects of WFC can also manifest in relationships between parents and children. In the context of this study, it is plausible that elevated WFC among parents negatively affects children’s emotional well-being by altering parenting behaviors.
Similarly, family systems theory proposes that a person’s attitudes and behaviors are largely influenced by the attitudes and behaviors of other family members (Cox & Paley, 2003). According to this theory, a family is a social system in which each member exerts both direct and indirect influence on the others (Broderick, 1997). Notably, family systems theory points out the importance of looking “beyond the mother–child relationship and considering fathers and their relationships in the family in order to better understand children’s development” (Cox & Paley, 2003, p. 193). In this sense, family systems theory emphasizes the importance of focusing on the entire family.
Like several prior studies (Matias & Recharte, 2021; Nelson et al., 2009; Yucel & Latshaw, 2021), we adopt crossover theory and family systems theory as an overarching theoretical framework to examine the pathways between parental WFC and children’s emotional well-being. We extend this emerging but underdeveloped area of research by exploring the
Mediating Roles of Parenting Behaviors
The study of parenting has gained significant attention across academic disciplines, reflecting its importance in child development. Parenting is categorized through two distinct concepts: parenting style and parenting behavior. Parenting style 1 is defined as “a constellation of attitudes toward the child that are communicated to the child and create an emotional climate in which the parents’ behaviors are expressed” (Darling & Steinberg, 1993, p. 488). In contrast, parenting behaviors are the concrete and observable interactions between parent and child, such as how parents respond to specific situations or implement discipline (Darling & Steinberg, 1993; Kuppens & Ceulemans, 2019). Both parenting style and behavior influence children’s development and psychological well-being (Pinquart, 2017). When parents demonstrate consistent warmth and positive engagement, children show fewer emotional and behavioral problems (Bayer et al., 2006; Kingsbury et al., 2020). Conversely, negative parenting behaviors—particularly those characterized by verbal harshness or conflict—are often associated with increased emotional and behavioral problems in children (Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2020; Kaiser et al., 2019; Yap & Jorm, 2015). Among these parenting behaviors, harsh parenting is a strong predictor of emotional and behavioral problems among children (Chen & Raine, 2018; Kaiser et al., 2019; Pinquart, 2017).
Emerging evidence suggests that parental WFC can impact children’s emotional well-being through its influence on parenting behaviors (Cooklin, Westrupp, et al., 2016; Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2020; Wang et al., 2024). The negative effects of parental WFC are likely to cross over to children, as parents experiencing high levels of WFC are more likely to exhibit negative parenting behaviors. This evidence is drawn from research showing that a high level of WFC may cause parenting stress (Cooklin et al., 2015; Vieira et al., 2018), and those who experience high levels of stress may find it challenging to communicate positively with their children (Chung et al., 2022). Parents who experience elevated levels of WFC are also more likely to engage in aversive parenting behaviors, such as verbal harshness (Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2020; Wang et al., 2024), inconsistent punishment, or discipline (Cooklin et al., 2016), irritable interactions (Cooklin et al., 2015; Dinh et al., 2017), and more coercive disciplinary practices, including shouting, expressing anger, showing annoyance, and arguing with children (Verweij et al., 2021).
WFC may affect children’s emotional well-being not only by increasing negative parenting behaviors but also by reducing positive ones. Parents experiencing high levels of WFC are less likely to engage in positive parenting behaviors than parents with lower levels of WFC (Cooklin et al., 2015, 2016b; Lim, 2024). Positive parenting, often measured as parenting warmth or parent–child relationship satisfaction (Chen et al., 2019), refers to a dimension of “positively valued” behaviors that includes parents’ affection for and acceptance of their children (Deater-Deckard et al., 2011). The demands of WFC can drain parents’ energy and focus, making it more difficult for them to praise their children or spend quality time with them. Specifically, parents facing greater work–family conflict tend to display less warmth in their interactions with their children (Cooklin et al., 2015, 2016b; Lim, 2024).
Both positive and negative parenting behaviors have a significant impact on children’s emotional problems. Negative parenting behaviors, such as harsh parenting, are associated with increased emotional and behavioral problems in children (Yap & Jorm, 2015). Verbal harshness—such as negative criticism and disproportionately intense verbal discipline—is linked to emotional and conduct problems (Chen & Raine, 2018; Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2020; Kaiser et al., 2019; Pinquart, 2017) as well as increased feelings of depression (Wang & Kenny, 2014).
Conversely, positive parenting is associated with reduced emotional problems among children (Hess, 2022; McKee et al., 2007) and a lower risk of mental illness (Chen et al., 2019). Among various positive parenting behaviors, parental warmth is an important factor for decreasing children’s emotional problems (Bayer et al., 2006; Kingsbury et al., 2020). For example, positive parenting behaviors, including praising or expressing affection, are linked to fewer symptoms of depression and anxiety among children aged 6 and 7 (Kingsbury et al., 2020). Similarly, Bayer et al. (2006) reported that higher levels of warm and engaged parenting behaviors are associated with lower levels of anxiety and depression among children.
Differences by Parent Gender
Prior research shows that gender differences exist in how work–family stress affects parenting behaviors (Cooklin et al., 2015, 2016b; Nelson et al., 2009). Gendered expectations and inequality in paid work, housework, and childcare are linked to differences between mothers and fathers in their ability to manage WFC (Bass et al., 2009), and hence gender differences exist in the impact of WFC on parenting behaviors (Cooklin et al., 2015, 2016b; Yucel & Latshaw, 2021). Previous studies indicate that mothers who experience high levels of WFC display more negative parenting behaviors than fathers. For instance, mothers with high levels of WFC show more harshness toward their children (Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2020), whereas fathers facing higher WFC do not display more harshness than fathers with lower WFC (Cooklin et al., 2015). These findings suggest that parental WFC influences specific parenting behaviors according to parent gender, though in different ways.
Children’s responses to parenting behaviors might also differ by parent gender. It is well known that mothers tend to spend more time on childcare and supervision, even when they work longer hours than fathers (Bianchi et al., 2007; Craig & Mullan, 2011). Because working mothers spend more time with children, maternal work-related stress affects children more directly and more intensely than that of fathers (Matias & Recharte, 2021).
The Present Study
We advance work–family scholarship and the study of children’s emotional well-being by investigating multiple pathways from parental WFC to child emotional problems. By utilizing multiple mediation models, we examine different parenting behaviors as mediators for the association between parental WFC and child emotional problems. Specifically, the present study aims to answer the following research questions: (1) Is parental WFC associated with child-reported parenting behaviors (negative communication, conflict, and parental warmth) and child-reported emotional problems? (2) Is the association between parental WFC and child emotional problems mediated by negative communication, conflict, and parental warmth? (3) Do (1) the association between parental WFC and children’s emotional problems and (2) the mediating effects of parenting behaviors vary by parent gender?
Our study makes a further methodological contribution by employing children’s self-reports of parenting behaviors and their emotional problems. By asking children to assess their emotional problems and their parents’ attributes and behaviors toward them, we gain insight into how children perceive their interactions with their parents and their emotional well-being. In contrast, prior studies have typically used parenting behaviors and children’s emotional symptoms as reported by parents. Such approaches may introduce bias in understanding children’s emotional problems and how children feel about interactions with their parents. For example, parents experiencing high levels of WFC and stress may be more likely to perceive their children’s emotions and behaviors negatively (Sawyer et al., 1998), and they may not be aware of their negative parenting behaviors toward their children. By using measures of children’s evaluation of their emotional problems and child-reported parenting behaviors, we can capture children’s perspectives and minimize bias.
Methods
Data
We use the German Family Panel, also known as pairfam, which is a longitudinal study on partnership and family dynamics in Germany. The study began in 2008 with 12,402 respondents and was conducted annually until 2022. Notably, pairfam has a unique multi-actor design that includes the main respondents, their partners, and all children aged 8 to 16 years living in the same household with the main respondents. Pairfam was collected using computer-assisted personal interviews (CAPIs) and pen-and-paper personal interviews (PAPIs). Children took a 15-minute CAPI with their parents’ permission. Pairfam provides information on the respondents’ employment status, work schedules, parental work–family conflict, children’s mental health, and parenting behaviors. Since it offers detailed information on parenting behaviors, it is well-suited for our research questions. We used four waves of pairfam data, as information on work–family conflict and parenting behaviors was only available in wave 6 (2013/14), wave 8 (2015/16), wave 10 (2017/18), and wave 12 (2019/2020). We linked 2,034 children with their mothers (3,622 observations) and 1,732 children with their fathers (3,080 observations), resulting in 6,702 observations.
Measures
Dependent Variable
Our study focuses on children’s emotional problems as the dependent variable. We used the Strength and Difficulties Questionnaire (SDQ) to assess children’s emotional problems (Goodman, 1997). The SDQ measures children’s emotional symptoms with the following five items: Please tell me to what extent these sentences are correct for you. For your answer, think about how things were during the past 6 months. (1) I am nervous in new situations, (2) I easily lose confidence, (3) I am often unhappy, depressed, or fearful, (4) I have many fears, I am easily scared, and (5) I get a lot of headaches, stomachaches, or sickness. Children’s emotional symptoms were rated on a scale from 0 “Not true” to 2 “Certainly true.” We aggregated the responses to these five questions to create a measure for children’s emotional problems, with a total scale from 0 to 10.
Independent Variable
Sample characteristics for parents and children
Mediators
We examine whether positive and negative parenting behaviors—negative communication, parent–child conflict, and parental warmth—mediate the association between WFC and child emotional problems. In the pairfam study, children were asked how often their mother or father did certain things in order to gauge their parent–child relationships.
The scale
The scale
The scale
Control Variables
In the multivariate regression models, we controlled for mother, father, and child characteristics. Parents’ characteristics include their weekly work hours (less than 15 hours, 15–34.9 hours, 35–44.9 hours, and 45 hours or more), education levels (lower secondary, higher secondary, and tertiary), log of household income, mothers’ and fathers’ partnership status (married or unmarried cohabitating vs. no partner), and migration background (having migration background vs. no migration background). Children’s characteristics include child age and gender. We also include dummy variables indicating survey years.
Analytical Strategy
We used random-effects (RE) regression models with cluster-robust standard errors (Brüderl & Ludwig, 2014) and multiple (parallel) mediation modeling to investigate the association between parents’ WFC and their children’s emotional problems through different parenting behaviors (see Figure 1 for the conceptual mediation model). In the first part of the analysis, we estimated whether (1) parental WFC is associated with changes in their parenting behaviors and (2) parental WFC and parenting behaviors are associated with children’s emotional problems. The Conceptual Mediation Model
In the second part of the analysis, we examined the mediating roles of parental behaviors by estimating the indirect effects of parenting behaviors that link parental WFC to children’s emotional problems (Goldsmith et al., 2018). We estimated the total effect, direct effect, indirect effect (for each mediator), and total indirect effects. Additionally, we conducted separate analyses for mothers and fathers to address potential gender differences in the effect of WFC on parenting behaviors and their mediating role in linking WFC to child emotional well-being.
Results
Descriptive Results
Table 1 shows the sample characteristics. The mean score for mothers’ WFC is 1.91, and for fathers’ WFC is 2.09. Regarding child-reported parenting behaviors, the mean score for negative communication by mothers is 5.74, for conflict is 4.33, and for parental warmth is 13.35. The mean score for negative communication by fathers is 5.56, conflict is 4.14, and parental warmth is 12.62. Fathers work on average 43.69 hours per week, and thus have longer weekly work hours than mothers do (mean weekly work hours of 28). Approximately 38% of mothers and 46% of fathers are college-educated; 89% of mothers and 98% of fathers are partnered. In terms of child characteristics, the mean score for child-reported emotional problems is 2.43 for both samples of mothers and fathers. Around 17%–18% of children have a migration background. The mean age of children is 11.32 in the mothers’ sample and 11.22 in the fathers’ sample.
Multivariate Results
Predictors of mothers’ and fathers’ different parenting behaviors (random-effects regressions)
Predictors of children’s emotional problems (random-effects regressions)
Mediation analysis
The lower panel of Table 4 shows whether parenting behaviors mediate the association between fathers’ WFC and children’s emotional problems. As previously shown in Table 3 (Model 2), the total effect of fathers’ WFC is marginally significant (b = 0.106,
Discussion
A Summary of the Main Findings
Our findings show that children report significantly more emotional problems when their mothers experience higher levels of WFC. In contrast, the association for fathers is considerably smaller and only marginally statistically significant. Mothers with elevated levels of WFC are more likely to use negative communication, more likely to have conflicts with their children, and less likely to show parental warmth toward children. These negative parenting behaviors, in turn, are associated with more emotional problems in children. These mediating effects, however, were weaker for fathers. While fathers’ parenting behaviors were strongly associated with more emotional problems in children, their level of WFC only marginally influences their parenting behaviors.
Significance and Contributions
Our findings make three important contributions to the literature on WFC and children’s emotional well-being. First, we examine the potential pathways (multiple parenting behaviors) that link parents’ WFC to children’s emotional well-being. While most existing studies use a single mediator to explain the association between parental WFC and children’s psychological well-being (Hess & Pollmann-Schult, 2020; Mustillo et al., 2021; Vieira et al., 2018), we extend the existing literature by identifying multiple pathways underlying the association between mothers’ and fathers’ WFC and children’s emotional well-being. Our findings indicate that mothers’ WFC is negatively associated with children’s emotional well-being, partly because of increased harmful parenting behaviors (negative communication and conflict). Although parental warmth is considered a major mediator between mothers’ WFC and children’s negative outcomes (Lim, 2024), our study has shown that reductions in parental warmth do not translate into negative impacts on children’s emotional well-being.
Second, we extend the prior literature by including fathers in the analysis and examining whether mothers’ or fathers’ WFC has a greater impact on children’s emotional well-being. Prior studies mostly focused on the association between mothers’ WFC and children’s mental health outcomes, and only a limited number of studies considered both mothers and fathers (Dinh et al., 2017; Van den Eynde et al., 2020; Yucel & Latshaw, 2021). Although a prior study suggested that the association between fathers’ WFC and children’s mental health (mother-reported) was similar for mothers (Dinh et al., 2017), we find a stronger association between mothers’ WFC, child-reported parenting behaviors, and child-reported emotional well-being. In addition, the mediation analyses show that fathers’ negative communication, conflict, and parental warmth do not have a significant indirect effect, unlike mothers’ negative parenting behaviors. These findings underscore the need to understand and support mothers who experience high levels of WFC to improve children’s emotional well-being.
Lastly, in previous research, children’s emotional problems and parenting behaviors are mostly measured using only parents’ reports (Cooklin, Westrupp, et al., 2016; Dinh et al., 2017; Van den Eynde et al., 2020), thus omitting children’s perspectives on their emotional problems and how their parents behave toward them. In this study, we take a child-centered approach to understanding how parental WFC influences children’s emotional problems by analyzing children’s reports about their emotional well-being and how parents interact with them. Thus, we bring children’s perspectives into the emerging literature on the impact of parental WFC. This approach has wide methodological significance in that it potentially minimizes reporter bias and endogeneity.
Limitations and Future Research
Limitations
Our study has certain limitations. For instance, it focuses on a single country context, Germany, where German mothers in our sample were predominantly part-time employees (about 66% of mothers in our sample work less than 35 hours per week). As part-time employment is common for mothers in Germany, results may not be generalizable to countries where full-time employment among mothers is more common. In addition, the data in the pairfam survey are limited to four waves that provide information on WFC, child-reported emotional problems, and child-reported parenting behaviors. Thus, we were unable to investigate the stability of WFC effects on children’s emotional well-being over longer periods of their development.
Another limitation is our inability to identify the causal effects of parental WFC on children’s emotional well-being. Parental WFC may increase due to increasing work-related stress, but it can also increase due to increasing parenting stress resulting from children’s emotional problems. Thus, there is a possible bi-directional association between parental WFC and emotional well-being. However, previous studies using longitudinal data suggested a causal link between WFC and children’s mental health outcomes (Dinh et al., 2017; Leach et al., 2021). Hence, our results align closely with the findings of previous studies in terms of the plausible causal direction (Bilodeau et al., 2023).
In our analyses, parenting behavior mediators account for between 20% and 22% of the association between parental WFC and children’s emotional problems. This finding suggests that there are mediators that play a role in linking parental WFC to child emotional problems. Parental mental health problems (Dinh et al., 2017; Leach et al., 2021), marital dissatisfaction between parents (Dinh et al., 2017), or constraints on time available for children due to WFC (Li & Guo, 2023) are potential pathways that were not addressed in this study.
Future Research
Future research could explore the effects of parental WFC on children’s emotional well-being and the mediating roles of parenting behaviors in terms of how they vary in different country contexts. As we have noted, cultural expectations of intensive mothering might influence individuals’ capacity to balance between work and family and children’s expectations of parenting behaviors. Longitudinal studies with extended follow-up periods assessing parental WFC, child-reported emotional problems, and child-reported parenting behaviors may provide further evidence on the long-term impact of persistent WFC on parenting behaviors and child emotional problems. Additional research in these areas will allow for a more rigorous assessment of the causal effects of WFC on children’s emotional problems. Other potential mechanisms, for example, parental mental health problems, parents’ time spent with children, marital conflict, divorce, and mistreatment of children, should be investigated.
Conclusion
In conclusion, this study contributes to our understanding of the relationship between parental WFC and child emotional problems by examining the mediating roles of parenting behaviors. Our findings provide further evidence that high levels of parental WFC are associated with negative parenting behaviors, which in turn potentially contribute to children’s emotional problems. As workplaces evolve to prioritize workers’ well-being, our findings point to the need for proactive policy measures to reduce workers’ WFC and to support parents under high stress due to WFC, thereby mitigating adverse effects on children’s emotional well-being.
Footnotes
Acknowledgements
We thank the JFI editors and anonymous reviewers for their thoughtful comments and suggestions. Earlier versions of this article were presented in 2025 at the International Sociological Association Research Committee 28 on Social Stratification and Mobility (RC28) Spring Meeting, the Hope and Resilience: A Multidisciplinary Conference on Social Sustainability for Children, and the Korea Inequality Research Network Annual Conference.
Ethical Considerations
The German Family Panel (pairfam) is de-identified. Respondents’ names are never kept with their survey answers, so it is impossible for researchers to identify individuals. Therefore, no personal data was processed.
Author contributions
Misun Lim conceptualized the study, prepared the data, conducted formal analysis, developed the methodology, interpreted results, and played a leading role in manuscript composition. Matthias Pollmann-Schult contributed to study conceptualization, data preparation, formal analysis, methodology development, results interpretation, and manuscript writing. Jianghong Li contributed to study conceptualization, results interpretation, and manuscript writing. All authors participated in drafting and revising the manuscript, have reviewed and approved this version for publication, and agree to be accountable for all aspects of the work.
Funding
The authors disclosed receipt of the following financial support for the research, authorship, and/or publication of this article: This work was supported by the German Research Foundation (DFG) [grant number PO 1569/8-1].
Declaration of conflicting interests
The authors declared no potential conflicts of interest with respect to the research, authorship, and/or publication of this article.
Data Availability Statement
The data underlying this article are available in the German Family Panel (pairfam) at https://doi.org/10.4232/pairfam.5678.11.0.0 (Brüderl et al., 2024).
